The monk and the mortal

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Braden's Lesson 3:

This story is about a troubled man seeking help from a monk.
Troubled man says, "there're somethings, some people, some memories in life that I can't seem to let go"
Monk says, "there's nothing in life that you can't let go of."
Troubled man says, "sigh...some memories are so memorable that u can't let go. Some people, some things u love so much that u can't let go."
Monk says, " alright, let's sit down, enjoy our tea and have a little chat."
The monk handled over a teacup to the troubled man and started pouring hot water into the teacup. The monk kept pouring till the hot water eventually over flowed.
The troubled man, sensing the pain from the scalding hot water, immediately let go of the teacup and the teacup dropped onto the floor.
The monk said, "In this world there's nothing u can't let go of. When you can't bear the pain anymore, you'll let go."
Somethings, it's urs means it's urs. Things that are not urs, there's no use forcing.
Things happen for a reason. It's for you to learn and not repeat the mistakes again and get troubled in it.

有一个故事，讲的是一个苦者找到一个和尚倾诉他的心事。
他说：“我放不下一些事，放不下一些人。
"和尚说：“没有什么东西是放不下的。
"他说：“这些事和人我就偏偏放不下。
"和尚说：＂什么事和人你放不下呢？来，我们喝杯茶慢慢说。
"和尚让他拿着一个茶杯，然后就往里面倒热水，一直倒到水溢出来。
苦者被烫到马上松开了手。
和尚说：“这个世界上没有什么事是放不下的，痛了，你自然就会放下。
"是呀，没有放不下的。是你的就是你的，不是你的强求也不是你的。经历是让我们成熟的，而不是让我们沉沦的。