choices

A friend once told me this. he said everyone has choices in life. everyone can choose in life. There're lots of choices in life to let you choose. What you are now and what you will be is what you choose to be.

And I agreed with him. But I knocked him out with a situation where one has no choice. Don't get me wrong. yes I agree that everyone has choices. However, in some situations we're forced to make choices. Which leaves us with 'No choice',

Let me tell you guys the situation. Lets say you're crossing the road you've checked carefully and there're no cars so you proceed to cross the road. Suddenly, a sports car speeding at 250km/h came out of nowhere. You're stunned. Do you have a choice to say I don't want the car to hit me? No. you actually have no choice. Because the car is coming at such a speed that you don't even have time to think.

Another example. You met with a bike accident and you fractured both your arms. You're seriously injured, but you're alive. Soon the ambulance came. Do you have a choice to say you don't want to go to the hospital? No. you do not have a choice no matter what you say. You can say your mother is gonna die, you can say you are on the way to save 5 children's life, you can even say if you go to hospital, earth will be destroyed. No matter what you say, you will be forced to the hospital. No choice. The ambulance team would take it as you hit you head and you are not in the right state of mind. 

These kind of situations you have no choice at all. Even if you don't speed and abide by all traffic rules, that doesn't mean other people will not hit you. When you have no choice, you can only let the heavens decide. But in life most of the time you will have choices. 

When making choices, it actually determines what kind of person you are. You can be a selfish person, you can be a scheming person, all kinds of personalities. If you guys wanna be a better person, please make the RIGHT choice. NOT the majority choice. This is very important. Make the right choice. Do not fear, think through carefully. Always make the right choice from the start. Even if you're already wrong from the start, stop the wrong doings already. Start doing things right. The heavens is watching...

一路上有你

Came across this video. Please take a few minutes of your time to watch. Its really nice.

I have a child

Most of you guys may not know this, but I have a child. But i'm single. hahaz. Take a look at her cute pics.

This is my cute little Pudding doggie =D Taking care of her is much more tiring that taking care of a actual baby. I'll have to take care of her for a lifetime. Pick up her droppings, wipe her pee, comb her fur, clean her ears, clean her 'house', teach her sit, stay all these human languages, must understand her dog language, feed her, Etc...

Woah, it's really tough and challenging. Some people have maids or mum to help, I don't have. I really feel like a mother now and I can finally understand how tough it is to be a good mother. Through all these, I hope it prepares me better in the future when I have kids. =)

CUTE right? =D She is so so so smart. I've only had her for 3 weeks or so but she learnt sit, jump, lie down, stay and play dead (not so well). She learned all these in a very short amount of time! But she is not good at toilet trained. She pee on my bed making me so mad. not once, not twice but thrice. 

-.-! 

Anyways my birthday passed quite some time ago and here are some pictures.

Thanks to these people that celebrated for me. After living for 23 years, it's my first time I cut my birthday cake.

It's the first time I had friends celebrating it for me,

It's the very first time they sing birthday song for me =)

Although they're my brother's friends but they're very thoughtful. My own friends have never celebrated for me before. 23 years not even once.

The birthday cake was wonderful! ice-creamed chocolate cake that was picked my my brother and Samantha.

I made 3 wishes and I hope they come true =D

Thanks to those whom knew and remembered my birthday too!

A big MUACKS to all of you =)

Food for thought

Recently these few days I didn't study and didn't feel like studying. All I learn is skills, skills and skills. From kindergarten, we're taught to learn maths, English, mother tongue etc. When we grew older, we went to secondary schools and Junior colleges and Polytechnics and all the top schools to learn advanced math, English and mother tongue again.

All we have learn are all skills, skills, and skills. I'm tired and sick of those formulas, calculations and theories. Is this what my life is for? Lets say I could live till 80. I'm now already 20+. One quarter of my life is gone and I've noticed I've learnt nothing but skills. Just like an athletic who trains everyday, and each day he's muscles get bigger and stronger. But what's the use? (In my case its skills) Is he happy? Is that what life is for?

Look at the world now. It's become so horrible that people nowadays just train and train and train. Look at my friends and some are like zombies. Just to get that degree certificate. The world now sees nothing but qualifications.

Everyone that sees this, I beg of you, take a deep breath and think. the world's so horrible that all the killer machines, chemicals, green house effects are all caused by the most intelligent people. I bet a poly or JC student could not invent a nuclear machine. I bet a primary school student cannot invent missiles All these things, they are created by professors, scientists. The most intelligent of human species.

What is the world lacking? 

So what if you're smart? Look at the people around you. Backstabbers, disloyalty, cheats, lies, robbers, rapers, selfish people, people full of complains, all these, all intelligent people. But lacking moral knowledge. Lacking Ethics. What's the use if you so smart but you're dishonest, selfish and evil?

Humans are born kind, sweet, lovely. Babies wouldn't charge at someone with a knife. It's actually the way that they are brought up that causes them to be evil. Schools doesn't teach Moral and ethics lessons. Teachers in schools only teach skills. Without even teaching the proper ways to use it.

I feel that the world really needs to slow down and teach their people the correct values, morals and ethics. If the world is really coming to an end, it's people killing people. Not meteor storms, floods, earthquakes and what so ever.

THINK...
Why do people want to get high qualifications?
Ans: Its because people wanna be professors, scientists, managers, directors, singers, business owners etc.


Why people wanna be professors, scientists, managers, directors, singers, business owners?
Is it because they wanted to be great people and contribute to the society?
No. They don't. It's because of money. It's because they wanna be rich and wanna lead a good life. Therefore they want to be rich.

These people, they will never be happy. They have contributed ZERO to the society if what they had invented are used in the wrong ways. Their life is like this:

Birth,
Grow,
Learn all the formulas and languages in the world,
Learn and learn all the Maths formulas, day and night,
Get the title of professor, thinking that that is the way to lead a better life
Work and earn big bucks, thinking as long as they're rich, they can lead a better life
Become richer and richer
Buy expensive, luxury stuffs
Complain that they are poor, not enough to cover their expenses,
Work harder and harder, earn more and more
Buy more cars and houses,
get old, live comfortably
And die.

In their whole life, they don't know the real meaning of happiness. They just wanna live comfortably, and die. In fact, they are just lazy and selfish people.

In the next post, i'll share with you guys happiness and the meaning of life. =)