Monday, December 9, 2013

Vietnam Ho Chi MinhTrip Dec 2013

Updates on the Fun Trip I had in Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam! This is my long awaited trip for the whole year. Overall, the trip was fun and Ho Chi Minh city is a nice place to go for a holiday.

Firstly, no matter what flight you take to land in Ho Chi Minh city, after you've check out from the airport, you'll have to take a taxi to the city area which is around District 1. Unless you have locals you can trust that are coming to fetch you, it is advised that you only take taxis that are Vinasun and Mailinh. Taxi companies are unregulated in Vietnam and the owners can charge whatever amount they want. They could even set the taxi meters spinning at an alarming rate. A rough guide would be a 5 minute trip from the time you board the taxi would not cost you more than 200,000 dong. I have taken many taxi trips that are approximate 5 to 25 minutes and the fares ranges from 20,000 dong to 300,000 dong.

If you notice the meter jumping at an alarming rate of more than 50,000 per minute, stay calm, do not argue with the driver, kindly ask the driver to stop and change a new taxi. There's no point in arguing.

Next up, hotels:

There are hotels every where in the District 1 area. You don't have to worry about having no room to stay in. The hotel staffs are friendly and the rooms are considered clean and neat. Some hotels even offer luxurious rooms. The hotel room ranges from 500,000 onward. You actually can get a pretty decent room at 600,000 dong. As I've said, there're many hotels. It all depends on you to select the correct one of your choice.

A friendly staff at the hotel
 





My friend 'feeding' a staff of the hotel, fooling around having fun


A view outside from the hotel lobby
Food:

There are a lot of varieties of food there. Lots. I don't have time to take pictures of the food because its too nice and I gobbled up the food before I could take any picture.

 

Got a shock when I opened the egg. I tried a few and it was quite alright


Sight-seeing:
I didn't have a lot of time to go sight seeing. Only managed to go a few tourists attractions. Most of my time were spend eating and shopping. lol

My happy Vietnamese friend sitting by the river 


A Nice view of the river

A very beautiful place to dine by the edge of a river


A church in Vietnam
  


Unique gifts

Pretty girl with so many bikers looking at her

Finally, some local delicacies that I brought back!


The people there are generally friendly. The things there are pretty decent. It's just that you'll have to watch out for pick pockets, snatch thieves and cheaters. There will be many people selling things like sunglasses, lighters, fans etc. Please refrain from buying from them. They may act very pitiful in front of you and whatever they are selling is much much more expensive then what the shops are selling. There are even people walking around the streets with a shoe brush pestering you to 'clean' your shoe as they will brush it for you.
If you really want to offer them something, offer them food. you can then distinguish those really in need compared to those who act pitiful trying to cheat you. When you reject these people, they will give you a 'smelly', 'idiotic irritated' face which irritates me. Whatever they ask of you, just reject them.

It is best if you have a friend in Vietnam that could speak Vietnamese because most locals can't speak English. I am lucky because for me I have a good friend in Vietnam who could speak Vietnamese and she bargained and brought many stuffs for me! Those goodies above mostly are brought by her and sent to my hotel on the very last day of my trip.

Thanks to Thuy for buying so much stuffs for us to take back to Singapore! Also thanks to her for bringing us around sight seeing and eating a lot of nice food, translating for us, bargaining for us! I enjoyed myself and I will be back for more!

Monday, November 25, 2013

什么是等待

一天有二十四小时。每一分钟,每一秒,都是等待吗?你曾经对我说过,有人等你等了六年。我却觉得等你六年的人,可以说等了你六年,但是六年里他为你做了什么?他思念你多少?他一天一天的活着,时间一秒一秒的过。这样就算是在等你吗?那么等我 90岁时我在告诉你我等了你70年。
等待一个人对我来说不是这样的。不是一分一秒的过了就算等待了。等待是一种愿意,是一种思念,是一种可望。虽然时间一分一秒的过,但是我是一分一秒的在想你。你知道我思念你因为我把思念都写在了这里了。






一场雨 把我困在这里 你冷漠的表情会让我伤心
六月的雨 就是无情的你 伴随着点点滴滴 痛击我心里

wo 我不相信 你不是故意的 
却为何把我丢弃在风雨里
wo 我不忍心 也不想背叛你 
惟有默默等你 回心转意

我没有放弃 也不会离你而去
哪怕要分开 我依然等你
我全心全意 等你的消息
终会有一天 你会相信我 我爱你


一场雨想念你在我的心中都不可比拟
你走后什么都已经消失在风雨里

Saturday, November 23, 2013

Girl

我累了。每一天晚上的恶梦,每一天的想你,我好累好累了。过一天好像过一年,时间太慢了。
你知道你自己心里想要的快乐生活,但是你却还想着出去玩,不想定下心。我们说过的约定,三或五年后结婚,一起生孩子,一起像童话故事里快乐的生活,你都忘了吗? 你怎么可以就这样忘了?
你说断就断,一次机会都不给我。你却给了james 那么多机会,对我一点都不公平。你说断就断,那我对你的爱怎么办? 不爱我爱ray,那你当初为什么要对我那么好?
如果就因为一个男人出卖了你,而你觉得所有男人都是怀的,那好,我也可以这样玩。
我知道以前是我不好说出了伤害你的话但是我真的后悔了。我好想好想要跟你有个宝宝。我知道错了。
新年见了你家人后,如果你对我的爱还是找不回,那你要爱谁就去爱吧。是ray也好,是你的别的男性朋友也好。我只希望你快乐和爱呼自己的身体。只要你知道我会一直想着你那就足够了。我是真的爱上你了。

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

用尽一身的力气, 守护一生的约定

先听首歌。不是很好听可是,歌词很好。




爱是什么东西
 有没有意义
你是什么东西 伤透我的心
你的爱情像游戏 我却爱得很彻底
其实我爱你 反而让你受委屈

勾过手指的你 该不该放弃
曾经不弃不离 你却不在意
用尽一身的力气 守护一生的约定
难道这是我 一厢情愿的秘密

等你的好消息 却等不到半点安慰的话语 只有你满脸的嫌弃
等你的好消息 再等也没有半滴温柔残余
我开始不再相信 童话中天荒地老的约定

烧掉了回忆 从此你从记忆里删去
谢谢你让我懂得放弃 学会了哭泣

等你也好想你 却等到了铺天盖地的雷雨 和遍体鳞伤的自己
等你也好想你 却等到了一个无人的废墟
我们却都回不去 再没有曾经爱过的痕迹
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我看透了她的心
还有别人逗留的背影
她的回忆清除得不够干净
我看到了她的心
演的全是他和她的电影
她不爱我
尽管如此她还是赢走了
我的心
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我才終於明白 辦不到的承諾 就成了枷鎖
現實中幸福永遠缺貨

請告訴她 我不愛她
笑著難過 自我懲罰
想終止這一切掙扎 橫了心 說真心謊話

別告訴她 我還想她
恨總比愛容易放下
當淚水堵住了胸口 就讓沉默 代替所有回答

我不愛 我不痛 我不懂
我的心 早已掏空

真心話 言不由衷
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现在的我好想像MV里的JJ发生一场车祸躺着就不在起来了。我这一生爱的你,走了。心里有说不出的难受。
我天生注定,每一次考试时如果有女友一定分开吗?为什么老天要这样对我?我跟她在一起付出了真心,明明开始时相爱,却不能在一起。我上辈子到底做了什么老天要这样对我
爱情,不就是简单的跟你相爱的人在一起吗?为什么爱情那么真却那么痛? 我真的累了。亲爱的爸爸没了,快乐完了,我把一切希望放在我们两爱情生上,现在却变成这样。
我不可能在爱了。我这一生很肯定的不在爱了。不在爱了不是因为她,而是不在相信爱情了。等一天你看到了这些,请你不要怪自己。不是你的错。在爱情里没有谁对谁错。要怪就怪我生气时,说了气话,让你心痛了。
我不会在爱上任何人了。这种心痛的感觉我玩不起。痛的我不能呼吸了。
就让时间证明我对你的爱。半年后,一年后,十年后,我如果还爱着你,我就会是一个人。 不要误会,我单生,不代表我会跟你在在一起。而是我不在相信爱情,而且心里还藏着我现在心爱着的女人






Monday, September 16, 2013

Piano

From young, I've always wanted to learn piano. Because of home financial issues, there was no chance. Moreover, playing the piano is a 'thing' for the rich or talented. I'm not. LOL

Anyways, Take a look at her play. I could totally watch her play the piano whole day. =D

(Please wait for my blog music to finish playing before you click play)

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

Getai

A 'Getai' (literally song stage) is a usually boisterous live stage performance held during the Ghost Festival (usually in August) commonly held in Singapore and malaysia. (Wikipedia) It is usually held at open fields, open void decks during the evening at different locations throughout the whole month of August.




Many people, mostly the elder generations would gather as early as 6pm to occupy a seat. You seldom see youths at a getai because 99% of the performance and songs sung are from the 50's, 60's, 70's or 80's. This event was however very popular among the elders. Its like a mini 70's concert to them. The reason for these 'mini-concerts' was that they believed that August is a month that the hell gates open for spirits to roam the mortal world. Therefore they would set-up all these concerts to 'entertain' the dead.

It was one of my Dad's favorite event. During the month of August, he would return home from work at about 5.30pm. Take a shower, have his home cooked dinner, and ta-da! he's gone out to these getai events to enjoy. When I was very young as a kid I vaguely remembered that I went with him before. However, since I was still young and didn't know how to appreciate the songs, I played with grass while my dad watched the performance. Lol. haha. I hope his is enjoying his time with these concerts. =)


Saturday, August 10, 2013

Farewell Daddy

Dad is gone. Forever.



A Happy Family Dinner 2009






A Happy Dad

Passing Out Parade

New Year Wishes for Mum and Dad



Last Family Dinner

Dad's Last Moments
Have a Peaceful Rest

Dad's Funeral According to Buddishm

























 

 



Dad, rest well. You will always be remembered. You have worked hard to support this family yet I have no chance to bring you out abroad to enjoy. I'm Sorry. If there is a next life, please allow me to be your son again. I promise you I will take whatever it takes to let you enjoy. Rest in peace.


Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Stomping

So my posting was uploaded to Stomp.

Story on Stomp
Prayers and well wishes from kind souls
Some of my friends asked my why post online? To me, it was clear. Posting online means letting people know. And I'm not afraid of letting people know. I'm only afraid when there is no cure. By posting online, I get more prayers which means more people pray for his well being which is better.

By posting online, people who have read would treasure their parents more. If they don't, I have nothing to say. But if my story is able to touch and make people realize how fragile life is, why not? If I am able to make 1 person more filial, why not? I've ever came across this story and i'm gonna share it here.
"A man was walking along a deserted beach at sunset. As he walked he could see a young boy in the distance, as he drew nearer he noticed that the boy kept bending down, picking something up and throwing it into the water. 
Time and again he kept hurling things into the ocean.As the man approached even closer, he was able to see that the boy was picking up starfish that had been washed up on the beach and, one at a time he was throwing them back into the water. 
The man asked the boy what he was doing, the boy replied,"I am throwing these washed up starfish back into the ocean, or else they will die through lack of oxygen. "But", said the man, "You can't possibly save them all, there are thousands on this beach, and this must be happening on hundreds of beaches along the coast. You can't possibly make a difference. 
"The boy looked down, frowning for a moment; then bent down to pick up another starfish, smiling as he threw it back into the sea. He replied, "

"I made a huge difference to that one!"

Friday, July 19, 2013

Lost Hope - The last goodbye

He has worked hard for the whole of his 57 years in life.
Working hard everyday to support his family of 6.
Till the day he lies on the hospital bed, he still worries about insufficient money.

He does not smoke.
He seldom drink.
All he ate was home cooked healthy food.
Now bedridden, diagnosed with metastatic prostrate cancer and a type of leukemia cancer,
Even the last hope for chemotherapy treatment is unsuitable for him as it is too strong for his body to withstand.

Just when I am 25,
Just when I started working,
Just when I planned to take the whole family for a holiday,
Just when I started to be more filial,
Just when it's time for him to retire and enjoy,
He collapsed and is now left with around 3 months to live paralyzed and in constant pain.
He is my kin, my only dad.

We've always celebrated mothers' day.
Fathers' day has always been ignored.
Our fathers worked hard day and night. Do they deserve this?
How much have we done for our parents?

In this world of uncertainty,
Treasure the moments with your loved ones.
Live everyday like its the last day of the world.
Do not live your life with regrets.

Never would we expect this to be the last get together dinner
Dinner during Mothers' day
Last moment of movements
Now Paralyzed neck down





I urge all of you reading this to please take a look at your parents again when you get home today. Notice how much they've aged. Realize how much they have given you. Look at them again and give them a hug.

Daddy I love you. No matter where you're gonna watch over me, I know you'll always be there in my heart.