There is a girl that loves to eat chocolates and has lot of chocolates in her house. Living below her, there's this boy with lots of gemstones. Gemstones of all kinds. They soon get to know one another, grew up together and fell in love with each other.
One day, the girl asks the guy. "Can I have all your gemstones and in exchange, I'll give you all my chocolates?" Smiling, the guy replied, "Alright, you can have all my gemstones." =)
So the girl went back to her house and gathered all the chocolate she has and the guy also went back to his house and gathered all his gemstones ready to give everything to the girl. The girl however thought...
"Maybe I should keep 1 chocolate for my own. He won't know anyway."
And so the girl kept the most delicious chocolate in her house and gave the rest to the guy in exchange for the gemstones. The guy happily handled over to her all his gemstones and seeing her smile, he was so glad. He felt that he was the most happiest person on earth.
Soon night falls and they both went to sleep. The guy slept with a smile while the girl was unable to sleep. She kept thinking and thinking.
"Did he really give me all his gemstones and not like me, keeping one of my chocolate?" She kept doubting and couldn't sleep.
People often say that in a relationship, it best not to give your everything to your partner. It is because If your partner leaves, you'll be left with nothing.
To me, I beg to differ. I feel that in a relationship, you should always give 100% to your beloved one instead of not giving in your everything and keep doubting. If she really left, you should remember her smile always. You will be left with priceless memories that nothing can buy.
Giving in 100% to your relationships can be a real bliss. If both partners give in 100% to each other, there should be no problem that you both cannot work out. If the relationship turns sour, don't worry. You have already give in your best. =)
I gave in all i've got. In return, i am crying every night.
ReplyDeleteto Huiting: don't have to worry. U think about it. I think you still didn't give 100% yet. =)
ReplyDeleteThink about it. if u gave 100% you shouldn't be crying already. You should think back of the memories and smile. not tear.
100% consists of letting go when the happiness turns sour. It's when you give and expect TOTALLY NOTHING in return, and willingly give 100%, You should smile when thinking of the memories instead of cry.
ReplyDeleteIts because you gave ur best and expect something similar in return, hence you are hurt by love.
Let go and smile =)wish your partner all the best. give your 100%.