Sometimes, somethings there is no use explaining. Time will prove everything. However somethings you do have to explain. This depends on situation. to me, if the person is not listening or is not so close to you, you don't have to explain anything. because the more you explain, the more they will think that you are in the wrong. But however if its someone close to you, you will have to explain yourselves. Because he/she is close to you. they should trust what you say. If you explained but they didn't care, then its either they're mad at you or they don't trust you anymore.
I still remember that bitter time when i did nothing wrong and I tried explaining to her. Trust just isn't with her anymore. Instead, she is the one that did something hurtful in the end. Time is the truth to things...yea?
My favorite quote:
Love is not just about finding the right person. It's about creating a right relationship.
Love is not about how much love you have in the beginning, but how much you build till the end of time. :)
Braden Jan 29th 2011
So true isn't it? In the beginning when you see a girl you like, you wanted her number so much. you wanted to get to know her, you wish she liked you too right? But she thinks you're weird. -.-! To me, its not just about fining the right person. you too will have to build a right relationship. you'll have to learn to trust each other, get to know each other, finally give your partner all the best you could afford till the end of time. If you've tried for 1 year plus and the relationship is not working, learning to let go is also a kind of love. Because if you really love that someone but you couldn't give her the happiness that she wanted, you should let go after trying your very best.
When a relationship fails, both partners should try their very best to get over the quarrel and understand each other more. Its only this way that will make a relationship stronger. Its only when both partners tried and tried but still ended up in that same spot, and 1 decides to give up, there's no way the other could try anymore. Its then that one should learn to let go and give the other happiness letting her go find her own happiness.
That's what i feel. I've already let her go find her own happiness and I'll find m own. Just when I try to find, the person misunderstands me. -.-! how great...Well look on the bright side! Its gonna be Chinese new year! Jia you, jia you, jia you for the new year! May the world be healthy and prosperous! I need to go and study le...bye~ bloggie!
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